One year dating no commitment


Not all exclusive relationship leads to commitment.Plenty of 'relationships' out there are exclusive but never escalate to something deeper. They can be in relationships for 2-3 years and never fall in love, they just don't want to be alone. Him being 17 years older, being deceived by life and love, not addressing exclusivity or commitment after 6 months - to me - that sounds like the type of guy that is just happy going with the motion and not care if it last or not with OP. Not all exclusive relationship leads to commitment. Spending most their free time, meeting friends, families, come on.Plenty of 'relationships' out there are exclusive but never escalate to something deeper. They can be in relationships for 2-3 years and never fall in love, they just don't want to be alone. Him being 17 years older, being deceived by life and love, not addressing exclusivity or commitment after 6 months - to me - that sounds like the type of guy that is just happy going with the motion and not care if it last or not with OP. In which case *defining* it wouldn't mean a hill of beans anyway. He said he wanted a relationship with me, that we're exclusive, but I haven't heard from him in two weeks"! Again, based on everything OP posted, spending time, meeting friends, families, etc etc etc, clearly they are devoted to each other, not pursuing others. As salparadise said, they are long past the time when anything needs to be verbally clarified. I don't see how discussing it or defining it would change the outcome...IMO, relationships should progress naturally, organically. Just because a couple has *the talk* does not change how their relationship will progress (or not). Again, a TACIT agreement, which is every bit as valid as a verbal agreement...it comes to relationships. And again, if he (or she) has the desire to cheat or step out, they will do it regardless. I don't see how discussing it or defining it would change the outcome...



Do you want to date a man that doesn't believe in love anymore? It's good to do that after 3 months, 6 months, a year.Lets say she ask him where he sees himself in a year relationship wise and he answers: nowhere particular, I don't believe in love anymore I'm just happy with dating. Having this discussion is not going to change him, or make him commit, or prevent him from leaving. The goal in having a conversation is to situate YOURSELF.Do you want to date a man that doesn't believe in love anymore? Some people are in relationships and simply "asleep" at the wheel.They are riding along without a vision or having lost the vision they might have had, but accepting the status quo, along for the ride.



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